Vldpersonals fixes

I have a niche adult dating site utilizing [login to view URL] software. I need a couple fixes to be made on the site, while the site is live with users. The ideal candidate would have experience with vldpersonals. 1) I want users to have to upload photos when registering. This is an option under settings/registration in the back office. I click it but it doesnt seem to work or add anything to the registration page. 2) I would like the registration page to appear in a light box when clicking on join now on the front page of the site or I would like the registration to be displaying on the front page. 3) My site works on the concept to read messages you must be a paid member. However, users have found a way around this. If they recieve a message from a user and then after click send message to that user and then click on history it will show them the full message. I have to stop this, although I would like to keep the history feature for replying (eg. paid users). 4) I'm having issues sending messages from the communicate tab in the backoffice. Nothing is sending.