Add big play button to .flv video

Hi, I have a flv file that I currently use with a skin from dreamweaver. Now I want to add a big play button (and when the video is clicked while playing it should STOP playing) in the middle of the video instead. I know this can be done easily with Macromedia Flash but I just don't have the time. There's a tutorial here if you need it: [login to view URL] Only bid if you have experience working with flash and Adobe Flash. Thanks, Jakob