Change Facebook status external website without application

Hello. I am trying to make a highly interactive website with facebook integration that is both fun and easy to use for my visitors. While doing some analytic research, I find that I loose over 75% of my visitors leave when they are redirected to the facebook permissions page through facebook connect while granting my app permissions. I would like to at least have the user be able to update their status from my site, it is a crucial feature to the success of my website. I like the facebook connect and API integration because I can setup and design a custom <textarea> for the user to enter their status update into, so this is what I am trying to accomplish. Example: [login to view URL] Facebook status is at the bottom. This is not my site, just uses the same thing as I do. Please do not bid if you do not fully understand what I need, and make sure that you can do it or you will just be wasting both of our times!