White Hat Link Building and Social Networking

We need an assistant for the promotion of our website. The goal is to get customers and possible commissioners for the webshop where we sale our handmade replica props from a specific video game (Skyrim). We need someone with experience in internet marketing and good ideas. English language is prefered. Our requirements: 1. STRICTLY white hat techniques. Any risk of being flagged by Google is completely unacceptable. 2. No unethical methods, spam techniques and no junk profile building techniques. We don't want hundreds upon hundreds of backlinks. We will listen to your recommendation as to how many are required but our prior is ~40 high quality back links. 3. Links must be from English language websites only, must be visible, readable, indexable & 'do follow' 4. You will provide us with an Excel spreadsheet summarizing the links created 5. Links must be permanent, links must be one-way links and no links from under construction pages 6. Linked sites must be search engine friendly, established and fully active 7. Links that are not approved by us must be removed 8. Pages must be indexed and cached by Google within last 60 days 9. No [login to view URL] blocking. No links from rel="nofollow" or "noindex" tag for pages themselves and for anchor text 10. No Java links, jump scripts, framed pages, redirects, cloaking, CSS redirects, 301 redirects, dynamic links, Flash sites/pages, hidden links, no string parameters, etc. All links must be from a different IP address. 11. No use of automated software or bots, no link farms, link exchange programs and web rings and no paid traffic sites. 12. No banned sites, adult, gambling, violent, illegal sites, etc. No unethical sites. Contact me with your ideas and things that can be done.